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Now here's something we all can really
like. You're listening to creating daily.
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There's something wrong with you. You
know that because you and I are like
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a mullets. It is the is
the business. So he's the front part
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of the haircut and then I'm the
party in the back. I think they're
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hilarious. Speaks to me. It's
like he's saying what I'm thinking. What
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is going on? Everybody? Welcome
to another episode of creating daily. I'm
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your host, Billy Thorpe, and
yeah, I do Cook Beg with my
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shirt off. I can to come
up with something else. You know,
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I thought about saying like I'm your
non award winning podcast, live stream host
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or whatever, just to pick on
the gurus. You know who you are.
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I'm looking at you anyway, so
I'll stop being so I'm trying to
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be creative. I get creative block. I'm trying to overcome it. I
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get my friend Aaron coming on here
in a few minutes to help me overcome
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creative mental blocks. I can come
up with good intro for this show,
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but we'll get a really great show
for you. So if your Creator and
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you maybe you start a project.
I don't know if you've done this before.
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Maybe I'm in a boat of my
own, but I've literally started a
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project, got ten, fifteen,
twenty episodes, pages whatever into it and
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then all of a sudden, like
how do I get past this, man?
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I can't, I can't get past
it. Maybe I don't finish a
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project, maybe I quit early and
I don't really reach the full potential that
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project. So we're going to be
talking with with Aaron here a few minutes
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talk about how do you get over
that, how to get over some of
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those things that's going to keep you
locked up mentally. But before we do,
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I get a couple little segments for
you, as always. So here
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we go. What it's toll time
with the eating daily. All right,
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this is my new segment called tool
time, and this is where I share
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my favorite tools with you. Now
this is a new one. It's called
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Zoom I s. So it's made
by a company called Liminal, and I
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was actually kind of forced to get
this because the live streaming software I use
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was having a little bit of trouble
with their interview mode and I was in
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a pinch because I'm doing these live
shows every day and I'm looking for ways
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to bring in consistent video from guests. It's not all choppy and whacked out.
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Sounds good, looks good. So
I came across zoom ISO. I
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S oh, and what it does? It generates individual video outputs from each
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participant in zoom and then you can
put it into like different software like Ekam
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or, you know, I don't
know, about restream, maybe like whatever,
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like software on your computer, I
guess I should say, but anyway,
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like a switcher, any kind of
like encoder, media servers, all
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that kind of fun stuff. It
is macios only or Mac Os, like
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IOS and Os mixed up, but
that is what it is, and you
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can even do like hd video and
all that stuff. This really saved my
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tail. So we'll see how it
works. I used it yesterday, I'm
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going to use it today and we'll
see. You know how the video is.
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But if you're having struggles bringing in
those guests in certain applications, this
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did it for me. All right, let's jump over to our creator highlights.
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New Cooking necessary and now assembly required. It's got to be fun,
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all right, if you were a
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if you pay for a pro subscription, I get a kick back off of
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it because it has an auto affiliate
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have a directory of like all the
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can rank in. The more you
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on one sheet. So if you
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That makes it really easy and awesome. Now today's creator highlight goes,
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I guess, to date line in
BC. Like I'm not a big news
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fan or whatever, but this is
a really good series of shows called the
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thing about Pam. Pretty cool project. So I'm just read the description here
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says two days after Christmas in Two
Thousand and eleven, Russ, fiery,
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I can't fit for Eya. That's
he's pronounce it, came home from game
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night to find his wife, betsy
dead. He was soon charged and convicted
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of her murder, just because he's
the husband. That's what they do.
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But Russ insisted that he did not
kill his wife and anyway set off all
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this chain of stuff and in this
lady Pam is a whack job. So
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go check that out if you're looking
for something creative to listen to, if
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you like true crime stuff, that
is definitely a true crime and that is
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a crazy story and I wanted to
highlight it. So thanks a lot,
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dateline NBC. I'll just promote you
more than actually know what when you promote
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me. I know you're listening to
this, Keith Morrison. Won't you promote
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me a little bit? Huh,
scratch billies back. But anyway, go
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check that out. So uper fun
and they didn't have any creative blocks.
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I loved it. I watched the
Netflix special or the Hulu special or whatever
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it was on, and then I
also listen to that because I like that
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story so much and it was pretty
interesting to see the two different audio and
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then audio and video. So anyway, pretty creative story and if you are
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true crime podcaster, maybe you could
pick up some tips and tricks, because
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I really enjoyed the audio experience,
but not as much. I'm going to
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enjoy this experience. My friend Aaron
from the wet down podcast. He and
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his buddies cohost this show, but
today we're going to be talking a little
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bit about that, but more about
how do you overcome those creative mental blocks.
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So, without further ado, I'm
going to shut up. As always,
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bring on my friend Aaron and reminding
to I'm mute, if he hasn't
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already, because I didn't meet you. He's a pro. What's up,
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man, not too much, man, thank you for having me. I
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appreciate the time. Yeah, man, absolutely. Hey, I appreciate your
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time. I know you're very busy. Or Dad, your husband, your
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podcast host, a creator, you're
doing all the things in some man,
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I appreciate you coming on the show
and dropping some gyms. How do we
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get out of our own headspace?
I don't want to drop too many gems,
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man, I need all the money
I can get right now. When
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I keep you, got to keep
these rubies to myself. Sometimes can't give
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him away. I'm keeping my gym. Sorry, Miss. So let's dive
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in. First of all, we'll
talk about, you know, kind of
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your Creator experience. This is something
I probably should do on the show more
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often, but I usually just dive
right in. But you know, I
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are still getting to know each other
a little bit. So, man,
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give me a little backstory on your
Creator journey here. So I'd say I'm
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about nineteen to twenty months in.
We decided during the pandemic, we got
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bored, Group of my buddies and
I that everybody was streaming technology. You
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couldn't really see anybody and of course
the pandemic changed everyone's life. So we
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had to figure out ways to be
human again, and that was the way
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we did it was through a podcast. We created something. We took what
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our ideas and just fun our Shenanigan's, you know, boys jokes, Locker
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Room Jokes, where hockey players were
veterans were marines, like. There's all
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sorts of just there's never a dull
moment in our conversation. So we decided
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that we'd like to let people hear
what we have to say and if it
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weighs anything to them, great,
if it doesn't, know, no harm,
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no foul, I guess. So
we just try to have as much
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fun as we can. Yeah,
man, that sounds so. Would you.
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Would you say that most of your
that most of your audience reflects who
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you guys are as people as well? Like give you attracted the same types
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of people. I would say so, except for, like we built our
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own little community. We do get
ones. He's and two these new people
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that come in. They've not every
episode is meant for everyone. That's the
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thing. It's meant to be a
disconnect our so our first year. So,
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like I said, we've been doing
this for about nineteen twenty months right.
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So our birthdate for the wet down
podcast, because I'm a marine,
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we always got to celebrate a birthday
make every year. You got to keep
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trap. October, twenty seven of
twenty, of two thousand and twenty is
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when we decided to start this.
Moved all along, kept moving, still
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going strong right now, and we've
decided that we wanted to change things around.
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So the first year we decided to
borrow other people's credibility. I read
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a lot of selfhelp books, a
little different things, like thinking grow rich,
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for example. The best way to
create or get into a space that
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you don't know is to borrow someone
else's credibility to help elevate yourself. So
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we interviewed fifty two people and fifty
two weeks. It was thanks to clubhouse
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and the explosion of that and everybody
being stuck to their phones during the pandemic.
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We were able to, but I
booked up. I put up one
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room for a find to guess,
be a guest and I was booked through
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June and that was in February.
So that was yeah, and so you
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know how many weeks? There was
a lot of weeks right there. Then
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you do one show a week.
We do a brand new one every week.
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But the second half are in our
second season or second year, we
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decided to change things around and just
be the four of us. Sometimes we
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bring a guest and sometimes we have
a buddy come on. They're like,
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I want to learn how to be
a podcaster, I want to see what
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the experience is like, and we're
like okay, cool, so come on
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in. We'll have some fun,
tell dirty tell, some jokes, you
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know, some dirty ones, some
soft ones, some dad jokes and mom
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jokes whatever. And we're definitely not
everybody's cup of tea, but we are
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everyone shot a whiskey or Tequila or
rum or whatever it is it's got.
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So I'm sure that there's something that
will say that you might laugh at,
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and that's what we've been focusing on
this year as being like a like like
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our team, our crew, whatever
you want to call us. I like
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to call us the team, because
that's really what we are. We try
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to scratch each other's back as much
as possible. We look out for each
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other, but, more importantly,
we were friends before this, and it's
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very dangerous when you get into something
with friends, because Egos start to blow
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people thinking that they're better than others. But what's Nice is that we've kept
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each other in check so well.
There's no one person's head is bigger than
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the other with what we've got,
and it's it's a unique experience every week.
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It's not something that you don't look
forward to, at least for us,
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like we look forward to catching up, seeing what we each other's done
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all week, just the new funny
stories. For some people they don't care,
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but for others, like one one
of our guys, he's there even
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though he's not there. So I
mean that if he gives you an idea
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of the comedic relief that you get. Like we could be in a heavy
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conversation and then all of a sudden
you hear, Huh, what would like?
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Why? I don't get this like. Why would you? And then
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we have to unpack that box,
obviously. So we have to dive in
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and see what you know, the
different pieces that are there. But we
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try to be the release in the
disconnect that every everyone has a stressful life
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and, more importantly, people want
to be entertained. You can listen to
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self help podcast, you can listen
to this, you listen to that.
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I like to hear people stories about
what's made them become who they are.
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I've always found that really interesting.
So the first year it made sense.
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Now this was a whole new game
for us to be not interviewing people,
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not doing this like we have to
force ourselves to come up with not topics.
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We don't have a list of topics, we don't have a list of
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information that we focus on. It's
this is what's happened in our week.
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We find a way to blend it
all together and we dive on it and
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you do a nice little warm up
like you do before most shows most creators.
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Yeah, we just build a flow
and then I hit that record button
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and we run to that. We
run and gun. It's the way it
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goes so well for those are for
people who are listening or watching, it
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says like what's the show warm up? Aaron and I were singing little jingles
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before the show. So it's what
I do with my guests everyone. They
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got to sing me a song or
they don't need to come on. Absolutely,
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man, but it's a good thing
I know twinkle twinkle really well.
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Well, man, first of all, I love the things for sharing that
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backstory gets me a little bit,
you know, more knowledgeable about kind of
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like why I started. And I
think so many people started during the pandemic
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and they were bored and they were
like, Oh man, I'm gonna Start
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this podcast or whatnot. But Dude, I love that you guys did that
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pivot of you know and had to
force the knowledge or the you know kind
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of sense of like okay, let's
leverage other people's, you know, voices
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and stories. And then and then
you shifted into the second part, second
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phase of like now we're going to
just bring it to us, like we
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attracted people, we built our community
and now we're really going to focus on
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what we bring. So I love
that strategy. I've never heard that before,
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so I think that's really killer.
Now, when it comes down to
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the creative funnel, if you bill
of pushing stuff, and I mean how
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many you got yourself and three other
cohosts, you said right. So,
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yeah, four dudes. I mean
that is like that was like wrangling cats,
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I feel like, on a podcast. So who is the creative cat
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wrangler on your teams that you I
would say I share the hat with all
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three of them really. Well,
one of them. What are all of
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us have known each other for at
least five years now. One of the
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CO hosts my good buddy of mine. I served in the Marine Corps with
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we played hockey together when we were
in the Marine Corps. So he's somebody
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that can always rely on. If
I'm like, Hey, we're running late,
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I can always text him and make
sure that the word gets past to
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everybody else. If I don't have
time to make sure to get in touch
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with everybody, he can. You
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There's always somebody being accountable, but
what's also nice is that there's so
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much care freeness to it. If
it's not too much on someone where they're
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going to say obviously you're not going
to go out there and say horrible things
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on the podcast. You're not going
to be, you know, a prick,
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so to speak. But if you're
going to go out there. You
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it's free speech, man, practice
it, live it. We live in
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a place where you can do that
and you can put this stuff on the
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Internet. Where other places take you
down, we can do that here.
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So we try to all wear a
creative hat. We all try to have
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some responsibility with it. I would
like to say that I do a lot
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of it. I just end up
having more time to sit and focus.
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have another child, not me, but
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you know, in a few weeks
there's going to be another, another,
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another child gracing this planet. It's
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be good experience, some happy for
him and you know there's going to be
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some time off for all of us. But we all pick each other's lack
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of I mean an effective team.
And I kiss you said it was like
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wrangling cats. I can say it's
not wrangling cats, but when it's like
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get when you got to get four
grown adult men to sit down and try
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to stay focused on something and without
getting too heated, because I'm as I'm
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a glutton for that. I do
that once in a while. I like
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to go on my tangents. But
it's important that these guys are there.
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They are my back piece. Like
I might have a creative idea or I
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then I'll say it and they'll snowball it
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and they'll make it bigger and bigger
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for a you know, for a
long time we were against Tick Tock,
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for example, until I got pushed
into using tick tock. And I don't
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like being too creative, but I
also like I like to share it with
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everybody else. But a lot of
the videos that I've had on there I've
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either found or I've thought of some
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to you know, we caught on, we caught fire pretty quick on Tick
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Tock. We got something like seven
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I haven't touched it after that just
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many other things and I'm so spread
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created mental block does happen. Then
you have to pay attention to what you're
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doing. You gotta. I like
to I try to have a checks and
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balance system. So it all right, so do and I think we all
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do. Yeah, let's let's dive
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you know, oftentimes we do this. We got bored during the pandemic and
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we start a podcast and and you
know, I started podcasting before the pandemic,
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maybe like a year two or what
not, but then I, you
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know, started another podcast during the
pandemic. That went really well. But
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that was our thing. was you
know, we set out with the mission.
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We knew what we wanted to accomplish
with it, we knew the audience
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we wanted to build. Like we
really did all the homework up front,
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and then it made that creative that
weekly creative process, a little bit easier
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because we had something to kind of
look back on. But Yeah, man,
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I'm interested in your checks and balance, a system for like your creative
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process. Here I've limited it down
to eight steps really of what you can
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do to overcome it, and we
can dive in each step itself really in
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depth, like we could talk for
hours on this stuff, but to keep
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it quick and simple, like number
one, you just think too much.
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You really do. Like most people
don't realize that your mind, if you
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don't have an outlet, you're going
to be stuck. Okay, and sometimes
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you just have to not think and
I know it sounds crazy, and all
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of my overthinkers that are listening or
watching any of this. It's so easy
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to do all of that and you
know it. Everybody thinks of so many
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bad like I'm want I'm a glutton
for that. I I plan so far
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ahead. I try to be a
strategist. I try to be tactical with
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what's I'm going to move and how
I'm going to move. But doesn't always
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work, especially when you're new in
the Creator space, because you don't know
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what you're doing. I never knew
what I was doing. So what I
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recommend is a journal. I talked
about it on our podcast. I ended
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up finding myself a journal. I
put my thoughts down on paper. I
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see where my mindset is, where
my goals, my tasks, what I'm
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trying to get done and accomplished through
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a sudden I know where I'm at. A lot of people are like afraid,
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from what I've noticed, to go
back and read what they wrote in
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their drone. They might laugh at
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to listening to your voice on the
recording or hearing your voice for the first
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time. You don't always want to
read your thoughts of what you just put
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down because you're kind of like,
wow, I really said that, I
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feel so stupid. But I think
it's important that you do that because it
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helps you gage where you should go
next. It helps you break down where
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you need to be and move on, and then it builds off of that
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because because you think too much,
your emotions become involved. So number two,
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obviously you have to control your emotions. So let's go to let's go
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back to number one real quick,
because I want to done. Want to
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jump into this because men, I
think, is a creator or really just
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as a person, and I'm curious
for you and your crew if this happens.
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You know, if I overthink something, it's for me personally. It's
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not because I'm overthinking like the product
to the outcome or whatever. I'm typically
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overthinking about what other people may think. If you got into that strap of
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like, because I mean, I'm
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about because there was one person that
was in my circle or my world that
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I thought, Oh, you know
what, they might not like this or
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they may think I'm an idiot or
whatever, and I just didn't do it
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and now I'm not doing that ever
again. I'm you know, I've learned
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after several years of been in my
s, getting into my s, mid
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s. Now I'm like, Dude, I'm doing whenever I want, whenever,
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however, and if you think of
an idiot, then good for you,
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but otherwise I don't care. And
you struggle that as well, I
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think everybody does. I still struggle
with it. I mean I would love
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to. I've been seeing you smile
a bunch and I don't think that like
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we've talked before, so I know
that I made you laugh. I say
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weird things, I say goofy things. I like to make people smile.
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I like to say the things that
I know people think, but I say
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them. I hear it every day. I like to post some of the
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controversial stuff, I guess you could
say, on my stories and some people
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I watch the unfollowed button get clicked
a lot, but I also watch the
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followed button get clicked twice as much
as I watch the unfollowed but getting clear.
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So I can't, I can't complain
too much. But I think as
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you get older, you start to
realize that your time is limited on this
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planet. Like what you do.
So, whatever God you pray to,
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you want to make sure that you
live your life to the fullest. If
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you're not doing it, you're thinking
too much. Like I am a sucker
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for that. Like there are times
whe like I don't know if my mom
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and dad are going to love me
if I say this, but at the
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same time I'm like, you know
what, I've said this in front of
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them and they laughed, so maybe
I can say it's just how I deliver
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it, like you just can.
You can't go into a place saying something
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bad. If you deliver it in
a funny way, everybody's going to think
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you're funny and you're okay. That's
that why comedians exist and they're considered,
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you know, the what the logical
ones? Right now, I mean,
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look at Joe Rogan, look at
Taco, look at all these people.
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You know they're in the limelight because
of they just don't care, like they
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know what their circle is. They
got their support piece. You're either going
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to you can't please everybody. So
the overthinking, the thinking too much,
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that's where that comes from, trying
to people please. And yes, I
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liked I try to do it.
I love to see people being happy and
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I definitely don't ever want to be
the reason someone's hurt, but it does
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have to happen. It is a
business sometimes and you have to treat things
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as such. Not everybody will like
and I know that there's plenty of people
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that don't like me, but that's
okay because, yeah, maybe they see
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this or like wow, he's totally
different when it comes to certain things.
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Maybe I didn't know this. You
know, I tried to give everybody the
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benefit of the doubt, but yes, I am. I can say I
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have fallen into it. There are
some things still in my career that I
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would like to try. For example, I'll say it right here in front
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of all whoever's watching, like I'd
love to sit on an open mic night
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when they just have fun. Go
see what I can do on a stand
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up comedy night just for fun,
because I can make a whole locker room
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full of twenty year old, thirty
year old, sixty year old men laugh.
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that anywhere. I wonder if I
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could do it on a small stage
where somebody videos and you know, you
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never know. Yeah, and that's
kind of what the podcast has helped do,
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is made my stage right kind of
go away. Now Love Them.
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The anxiety's not there. I can
sit and hold a mic and be casual,
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like there's stuff that this was more
of like a this is how I
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came out of my show. I
guess you could say, all right,
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yeah, I love that. Dude. I think that's you know, I
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think it's killer for people who are
like, what can podcasting do for me,
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because oftentimes it's you know, I
don't want to, you know,
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I don't care if I grow an
audience, I don't care if I make
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money, I don't care. But
it's sometimes not, Dude. It's therapeutic,
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like I get on this microphone and
share my thoughts and, like you,
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I you know, I became be
daily presenter. I created this creating
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daily show, not to get famous, not to grow my audience, not
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to do any of that stuff.
It was literally because I said I want
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to create a daily show, and
then I'm like, why not? Why
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don't I just do it? And
then whatever happens happens, and I might
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get two months from now I'm like, that's a lot of work. Not
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For me, I don't care.
I'm out. But I met a lot
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of cool people along the way.
So, man, thanks for sharing that
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and and you know. So one
don't overthink. All right, let's move
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on to point number two. What
do you have for me? Got To
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control your emotions, and the reasons
I say control your emotions. Like today's
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world, with all of the outside
stressors that you know, you, the
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average person, can face daily.
It's going to cloud your mind, it's
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going to distort your focus. Maybe
there's something in your personal life you haven't
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handled yet looming over you, like
you didn't pay a bill or you're caught,
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you know, car in turns.
Everything's expensive now, inflations hitting US
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hard, so there's definitely extra stressors
and people's lives that can hold you up.
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you're afraid of trying something new and
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you're not sure how others are going
to view it. Like there's that overthinking
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coming back at you again. It's
important to remind yourself why you're doing it,
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what and how it's going to make
you happy and hopefully it's going to
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provide you some sort of accomplishment feeling. Or, you know, if you're
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lucky, you might monetize yourself if
you do it right. There could be
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somebody to see something in you that
you don't see in yourself that they you
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know, all of a sudden there's
this hidden talent everywhere. For example,
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mm that he threw, he got
found to with Dr Dre. I love
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music. I like to go back
into history and look at that kind of
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stuff. He threw a demo tape
to some guy after losing in the Rap
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Olympics and that guy just happen to
give it to Jimmy, I have been,
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which gave it to Dr Dre and
then he was in his house.
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He was he's Eminem like. Now
that's all you hear. He's we just
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watched him in the Super Bowl.
So it's your you never know. You
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really never know who's watching or listening, and it's very interesting to see some
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of the people that come along and
help you in your journey, because that's
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really what happens, is you know, if you can control your emotion,
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you have a clear thought, you
have clear mind, there's nothing you can't
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do. Honest man, really can't. And I've learned this, I would
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say, the hard way, because
I didn't grow up an emotionally stable home.
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Like it was chaos the first five
years of my life. Probably even
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after that, somewhat chaos. A
little bit better, but somewhat kit you
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know, chaotic. And even in
my s I'm figuring out like, okay,
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how do I control and I thought
I had a settled until I had
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a kid. Then I'm my holy
grab. That brought in a whole nother
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wave of like, you know,
opportunities to get frustrated. But I have
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noticed that in my career it's like
there's some stuff that I had opportunities to
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really just, probably rightfully so,
explode emotionally for lack of a better reason.
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I didn't. I kept my cool
and then stuff kind of worked out
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and it worked its way out and
opportunities present themselves through those relationships that I
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was, you know, seconds from
erupting on, you know, emotionally.
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So Yeah, man, love that, love that keep your emotions in check
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and yeah, it's awesome. And
so let's keep moving. Did yeah,
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I mean just stuff him. I'm
taking notes on my phone as you're chatting.
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it's make a routine, a creative
routine for yourself. So an artist,
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I mean if you're a podcast or
whatever, it is you're some sort of
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artist if you're creating something in my
mind, because you're making something that hasn't
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existed. So you're an artist in
some sort of way. So most artists
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will have some sort of routine when
they do things perfect. Example, everybody
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loves Bob Ross. I love Bob
Ross. If you ever watched any of
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his paintings. Dude, to beat
the devil out of it. He does
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it on every episode, but you
know why? It's to get you to
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take I laugh when I see him
do it, but it's funny because it's
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what he does, it's his cork, it's what he does, it's how
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he kept you involved, or just
his talking, like let's put some subtle
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mountains here. He always had a
routine, he had a way to talk,
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and that's what if you can find
what works for you, and that's
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going to be difficult because everybody does
something different. For me, I have
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three bottles of water for an hour
and a half show, like that's how
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it works. I always have to
have three and I'm going to slam them
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by the time I'm done, but
I'm also not going to shut my mouth
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for that entire time. So I'm
going to need to speak. I'm going
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to need to talk and you have
to learn. I guess I can thank
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my sales career before I started really
doing all of this how to talk,
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how to sit and be with people, how to understand the highs and lows
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of the conversation. The one thing
I hate is dead air, just dead
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silence or awkward moments. I'd rather
be the guy that you saw and say
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to me, Hey, I you
talk way too much, instead of being
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the guy that is like you're boring, like I that is the one thing
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I never want to hear is you're
boring. I don't want that. That's
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that's to me. That is one
of the biggest insults you can have is
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being called boring, and I don't
like that. All right, miss so
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make a routine. So so what's
your routine? What is your routine as
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a creatores that look like? So
my creative routine is I write down my
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thoughts. I have to do a
work out that same day. Doesn't matter
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what kind of workout it is,
it's just it helps me clear the it's
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like a brain dump for me.
When I do a workout. It I
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can focus on what I need to
focus on. Building my body, make
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myself healthier, do what I need
to do, and then I kind of
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sit down, I read a little
bit, I try to read something that's
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going to that's more beneficial to me, and then I end it with a
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journal, like a journal entry,
and it's always because I have I can
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see what's in my mind. I
put it on paper. It's like when
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you have a task and you have
to write your task down. They most
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people have a scheduled that you follow
or an agenda or some sort of anything.
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I is, the minute you write
it down it becomes real. That's
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how it looks to me. I
mean you have contracts for that reason.
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I mean you can't go to court
with somebody on a shaken hand and what
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you say that you have a piece
of paper to prove that it's real.
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So those same thoughts, in those
same processes can work for you. It's
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just you have to put it down. So that's that's my thing. And
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once I know where my mind is
at, I relay that information to my
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crew, were the guys that I'm
with, and I work out with them
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and I set these you know,
we set up our show. We did
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however we can, and they I'm
sure that that's what they do. I
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know one guy likes to drink a
beer before his before every episode. To
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be honest, I let to smoke. I like to smoke a little bit
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before an episode two. It helps
me get those pregame nerves. I'm not
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doing that now, but I like
to for myself because it's Mike. I'm
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in control of the situation and I
can see where my mind is going to
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be. To help me out if
I choose to, but it's that's that's
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my thing and it's not a it's
I can't recommend that for everybody, but
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you really should create your own routine
and how you do pay attention to your
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own corks. What do you do
when you get up in the morning?
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You Get up, you brush your
teeth, take a shower. You know,
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if you can you understand that routine. You have one before you do
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anything. Yeah, matter what it
is. Yeah, yeah, I think
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we're creatures that have of my nature, and so that is it's really key
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to you know, and I think
a lot of times creators just could be
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their side hustle, this could be
their side Gig, so speak. In
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in it be becomes lost because it
doesn't become a part of our routine and
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part of our life and then it
suffers in that project suffers and then that
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creative mental block is there. And
what I do? So I'm not focused
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on the logistics of this day.
You know, people go man, a
477
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daily show, like you're insane,
and I'm like no, I got a
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system that works for me and I
work on this thing about an hour a
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day the time, so maybe two
hours, because I do the actual recording,
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but then I have like thirty minutes
before thirty minutes after actually putting you
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know whatever, and I have a
document that allows me to fill in the
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blanks. Have spent a lot of
time building the scenes, building all this
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stuff. I've built the format and
then I just fill in the blanks of
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that format and so it enables me
to move super quick and not have to
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think about, Oh what it was
segment I'm going to do tomorrow. And
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I know a lot of creators will
just be week by week and, you
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know, project by project, episode
by episode, and then find themselves like,
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Oh man, I'm so spat up, I'm you know, and it's
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that journaling that I love, because
you are you know, I journal in
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a in a different way of just
like cheering, you know, ideas and
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documenting ideas and taking note on my
phone, as I am today. So
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man, these are good, these
are great. I would probably sit here
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and talk about all day about a
routine, because I wasn't that person,
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you know, in my life and
now I am that person who I do
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have a pretty solid routine and,
you know, I think having a kid
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really help that. Like now I
have very limited amounts of time, so
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I gotta go quick. You enough. So absolutely, and I'm lucky enough
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to say that I have an autistic
child. So they love routines and for
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me to have a routine and like
ought to, at least for him.
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I can't say they and not all, but at least for him a routine
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works so well. And human beings
are suckers for comfort. And when I
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say suckers for comfort, that's what
everybody chooses for. I mean you sleep
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in your warm, comfortable bed every
night, you get up and you put
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your nice comfy shoes on before you
go for a run. If you put
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a little bit of pain in your
life in some way, you have to
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force yourself to grow, like David
Goggins always talks about friction and how to
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make himself you need friction to grow. So I mean you could have a
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routine. You can keep your routine, but don't be afraid to change it
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up, add to it, delete. You got to find what works for
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you. I mean, I can't
say I'm superstitious, but I can say
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that if I've done something that is
really, really good, I try to
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analyze it, break it down and
focus on exactly how my performance was in
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that one moment and what did I
do leading up to it to get to
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that point. How did I do
it? If I did leg day the
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00:31:07.000 --> 00:31:10.839
day before I skated, I need
to do leg day before I skate every
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time until I play like crap again, figure out if that was the reason
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why I was doing so well,
and so on and so forth. You
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00:31:17.160 --> 00:31:19.880
just got to keep yourself moving.
That's what I like. These are.
519
00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:23.880
These are like really good points of
cree of if it body's joining us.
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We're talking about how to overcome this
creative mental block that we sometimes have as
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creators, and so you given us
a few keys, and so far that
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is don't overthink it, don't get
emotional and make a routine. Man.
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So take us on to number four. I know you aid of these.
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Let's jump to do life changes.
So your life is going to change.
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Change Sucks, man. Everybody hates
it. So when it does and it
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kicks you, you stand back up. And for me, I'm a military
527
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:53.079
guy, so I'm always going to
say like, is that all I got?
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A little bitch? Like, I'm
not a little bitch. I'm going
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to keep moving, going to keep
truggling along. Big Life Change like losing
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your job, for example. For
some creators that's a devastating thing. You
531
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start worrying about money problems. You
start worrying about you know, like how
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am I going to feed my family? What? What do I do,
533
00:32:09.319 --> 00:32:13.799
like how do I afford to live? Like how we need a roof over
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00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:16.160
our head. What do we do? If you can keep control of all
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of those life changes, based upon
what you can control, you're going to
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be okay. It's again, like
I said before, and I'll keep saying
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it over, it's important to do
a brain dumb so if you have a
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life change, write it down,
put it there and then chain right,
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if you can plan for yourself how
to get out of it, because you
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don't understand what you're doing, is
you're you're holding yourself up to create new
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stuff for people. If you want
to entertain somebody, you got to make
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sure that you're on that path of
creating for people. You don't want to
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be somebody that is sitting behind the
scenes in not knowing what's going on.
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You want it. You're they're looking
to you for some sort of relief or
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answer or entertainment, whatever it is
they're looking for you for. So if
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you can't handle what's going on in
your life beforehand, maybe that's a good
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reason why you're having a hard time
with what's going on. You can't put
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something else out if you've got something
holding onto you man and life like dude.
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I Love I love this country.
I always say that I need to.
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I'm becoming a better interviewer, I
hope, but I always say,
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Oh, I love that. Everybody's
probably dude, shut up. You can't
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love everything. But I do love
everything. But that's one thing that somebody
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taught me early on, one of
my mentors. He said Bill, if
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you want something you know too bigger
than what you have or different or whatever.
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You can't just keep holding on the
same stuff all the time. And
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so it's healthy to let something go, let a project go, let a
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friendship go, a relationship go,
or whatever, so you can move to
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that next level in your life and
free of that brain space to really move
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into what you want to as as
a creator, as a content creator,
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whatever that looks like for you.
And so I think that is hugely important
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to work through this things, document
those things and really look for it and
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maybe even you know, my wife
and son and I, in our two
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dogs, about this time last year
decided, like we're going to move to
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Puerto Rico, and that was in
my mind, was freaking me out.
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New and my wife. Now,
my wife's a little bit more hippy than
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me. She's super, you know, like whatever. She works off her
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computer, she has her own business, does graphic design, have a studio
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fulled crap. I'm like, I
work on line, like I work with
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creators, I work with PODCASTS.
Like, how am I going to do
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this stuff and take this to Puerto
Rico, which I don't even know the
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infrastructure? And now that I've learned
it, you know, like there's a
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lot of stuff I've do different,
but dude, it has literally changed my
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life just from forcing myself out of
my comfort zone and now I'm going back
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fifty pounds liider, maybe more,
because we still get a couple months from
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going back. Fifty pounds slider.
I'm super clear on the vision. I'm
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creating new content. It's like it's
literally been a season of like crazy change
577
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in isolation, but it's almost like
I've been inscunce. Sounds so weird,
578
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but it's almost Aaron, like I've
been in a cocoon and I'm about to
579
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just fly out of here like a
totally different thing. You Little Billy Butterfly.
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I like it. That's the way
to go. You know what,
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here's a fly, you and your
family back here. Do this is it.
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This is it your comedy stage.
So don't be giving any of my
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any of my audience ideas. I
don't want to hear that. Billy the
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man here, billy butterfully, get
you a Mug for your butterfly, a
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Little Butterfly Mugg that you're going to
your cocoon. You've blown up, and
586
00:35:27.679 --> 00:35:30.000
don't be up. You're not a
moth man. At least you're pretty enough
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to be a butterfly. All right, appreciate that. Hopefully I live longer
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than a butterfly, but you know
absolutely. If so, hit up.
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You hit a point right there and
yet me fired up. Sorry, sorry
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to rent and tangent, but all
right, so back to you like we
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can move on to point number five. If you got it there, absolutely,
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I'm ready to go always. So
number five, the tip, the
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typical piece that everybody understands that they
know that they're doing. They just don't
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want to admit it. You're doing
way too much. Life is life.
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It's going to be busy or boring, but if you don't understand the power
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of saying no, you're going to
paralyze yourself with the constant anxiety and having
597
00:36:04.960 --> 00:36:07.480
a distracted focus. Man The way
to fix those problems. You got to
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understand your capabilities, your work style, how to finish, like I mentioned
599
00:36:13.000 --> 00:36:15.679
in the beginning, of all of
it. You know the ways that helps
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me out, journaling for me.
Okay, the uniformity of this. You
601
00:36:21.000 --> 00:36:24.239
got to stay in line with yourself. You got to force yourself to sit
602
00:36:24.360 --> 00:36:28.719
down and say I need this fifteen
minutes to write these thoughts down. You
603
00:36:28.760 --> 00:36:30.039
got fifteen minute. How mean?
How many hours in a week? What?
604
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One hundred and sixty, something like
that right, so break your time
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down and if you can break it
down onto a micro level for yourself of
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where you spend your time, you're
solid like it'll. You can do so
607
00:36:45.039 --> 00:36:47.760
much if you can figure out how
to break your time into pieces and how
608
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to use it. I mean,
you mentioned losing a bunch of weight.
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If we did this two months or
two years ago, I wouldn't be sitting
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here with the the you know,
at least a chin. I had no
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00:36:57.400 --> 00:37:00.719
neck because I was just a head
and shoulders for a while now, like
612
00:37:00.800 --> 00:37:02.679
I lost a bunch of weight to
the pandemic, made me fat, and
613
00:37:02.719 --> 00:37:06.559
then I found out covid was going
to was killing all the people that were
614
00:37:06.559 --> 00:37:08.119
overweight and doing all these things.
I like, I'm not going to live
615
00:37:08.159 --> 00:37:12.159
forever, I got to lose all
this stuff. I want to be around.
616
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:15.119
I got healthy and then, you
know, God forbid, I get
617
00:37:15.199 --> 00:37:19.519
I haven't. I never got COVID, like I've been lucky. I've been
618
00:37:19.519 --> 00:37:22.880
one of the few that haven't that
has. Either I've had it or I
619
00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:24.440
haven't, but I don't know.
I'm not going to go pay to find
620
00:37:24.480 --> 00:37:30.480
out. But you you start to, you can create your of a better
621
00:37:30.480 --> 00:37:32.639
life for yourself. That is what
you want. That's what everybody wants is
622
00:37:32.639 --> 00:37:36.920
a better life. They just don't
necessarily always know how to get it.
623
00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:39.039
HMM. So, yeah, yeah, man, love it. Don't do
624
00:37:39.079 --> 00:37:42.280
too much, don't you know.
Say, say no. I love that,
625
00:37:42.320 --> 00:37:44.719
man. I love that point.
It's like, Dude, and so
626
00:37:44.760 --> 00:37:47.239
many times in my s I said
yes to all the things. I didn't
627
00:37:47.280 --> 00:37:50.519
really want to do it and I
knew deep down like I don't want to
628
00:37:50.559 --> 00:37:54.440
do this, but the people around
me, I just wanted to satisfy them
629
00:37:54.440 --> 00:37:58.400
and I wasn't really focused on myself. And I think sometimes as people,
630
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:01.199
as creators whatever like, we got
to be selfish at times. Like I
631
00:38:01.320 --> 00:38:06.679
lost fifty pounds because I was selfish. Everyone said you should lose weight for
632
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:08.000
your family, you should lose weight
so you look better for your wife,
633
00:38:08.039 --> 00:38:10.719
you should lose weight so you can
run and chase your kid, and I
634
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:14.920
tried to lose weight for all those
ways and it wasn't until I have stood
635
00:38:14.920 --> 00:38:15.840
in my kitchen and said, you
know what, I want to lose weight
636
00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:19.480
for me, just because I want
to look better, I want to feel
637
00:38:19.559 --> 00:38:22.159
better, I want to be able
to breathe like I did have covid when
638
00:38:22.159 --> 00:38:25.119
I was fifty pounds heavier or maybe
even more, and do it was rough.
639
00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:29.480
Like there's a couple days where I'm
like this is this might be the
640
00:38:29.599 --> 00:38:31.719
end, and I know it's because
I can't breathe already, because I'm just
641
00:38:31.719 --> 00:38:35.360
too big, like I'm too heavy, and you know, all that kind
642
00:38:35.360 --> 00:38:37.719
of stuff ment. So, man, love that point, love that point,
643
00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:39.559
and I'm going to keep I'm going
to keep moving. So don't,
644
00:38:39.599 --> 00:38:43.840
don't say yes to too much and
keep your focus where you were. It
645
00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:45.360
really needs to be. So let's
go to point number six and then we
646
00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:49.599
get some QA stuff too. So
we'll we'll hit six, seven and eight
647
00:38:49.599 --> 00:38:52.360
real quick and we'll jump to questions
and move on. So go for it.
648
00:38:52.400 --> 00:38:58.280
Are Awesome Technology. With today's world
being as fast it is, with
649
00:38:58.320 --> 00:39:01.639
the demand for everything to be in
didn't ready to use supportant. Remind yourself
650
00:39:01.639 --> 00:39:07.000
that you're handcuffing yourself and your own
devices. Instagram, twitter, facebook,
651
00:39:07.119 --> 00:39:09.760
snapchat, etcetera. All of them
are made for you to waste your time
652
00:39:09.760 --> 00:39:14.079
and pull your attention to keep scrolling. So I know that for some,
653
00:39:14.480 --> 00:39:17.639
like us, we are creators,
we do rely on using those from marketing
654
00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:23.559
pieces and such, but for what
I feel is ninety nine percent of us.
655
00:39:23.599 --> 00:39:28.119
It's just a waste of time,
and the reason it's just a waste
656
00:39:28.119 --> 00:39:30.719
of time is because how many times, how many billionaires do you see caring
657
00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:35.280
about what's on Instagram? How many
times they post in meals and packs of
658
00:39:35.360 --> 00:39:38.119
money and whatever it is that they've
got? They're not doing that. They're
659
00:39:38.119 --> 00:39:43.039
focused on how are they going to
make more? It's just they've corrected their
660
00:39:43.079 --> 00:39:46.920
focus. They understand that technology is
a tool to help them and nothing more.
661
00:39:46.960 --> 00:39:51.519
It is their focus. That's what
they want to do and eventually that's
662
00:39:51.519 --> 00:39:53.599
what I hope to be. You
know, I mean not technology. Make
663
00:39:53.639 --> 00:39:57.280
Technology were for you, not work
for it. That's good, so it's
664
00:39:57.320 --> 00:40:02.159
good. That's good. So number
seven. They're normal. Mental blocks are
665
00:40:02.159 --> 00:40:06.079
completely normal, man, and you
can't say that they're not, because they
666
00:40:06.159 --> 00:40:08.639
are, and the reason that they
are. Thomas Edison is the perfect example
667
00:40:08.679 --> 00:40:13.079
of that. All right, all
he said he never failed at anything in
668
00:40:13.119 --> 00:40:16.599
his life. He only found ten
thousand ways that something won't work, and
669
00:40:16.679 --> 00:40:21.679
it is so true. If you
have the attitude to just keep going,
670
00:40:21.800 --> 00:40:24.639
you're okay, and I think everyone
should adopt that. Right there, that
671
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:29.280
quote that you said. I heard
that early on in life, thank goodness,
672
00:40:29.320 --> 00:40:31.400
and that's what I always tell somebody
like well, that business failed.
673
00:40:31.400 --> 00:40:34.599
I'm like, not just figured out
how not it didn't work, I just
674
00:40:34.599 --> 00:40:37.239
figured out, you know, what
not to do and what I will do
675
00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:40.239
my next business. And so I
think that's hugely important for for people who
676
00:40:40.280 --> 00:40:45.000
start a show, start a podcast, write a book or whatever. If
677
00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:47.480
it falls flat, don't just chalk
it up and let the lessons go with
678
00:40:47.519 --> 00:40:51.159
it, but figure out what those
lessons are and take them into the next
679
00:40:51.159 --> 00:40:57.719
project. It's good. And the
last but not least, number eight.
680
00:40:57.719 --> 00:41:00.920
Never give up. You got to
stay on course, got to keep trying.
681
00:41:01.039 --> 00:41:06.159
Remember that if you keep showing up
and you don't chase the perfectionism out
682
00:41:06.159 --> 00:41:08.079
of this, you'll have the easier
time standing on the path that you want
683
00:41:08.119 --> 00:41:12.800
for yourself. You just can't chase
perfectionism. That's it right. If you're
684
00:41:12.840 --> 00:41:16.639
able to, if you're able to
kick perfectionism out of your mind, you
685
00:41:16.679 --> 00:41:20.719
can do really anything, because I
can tell you this. If you can't
686
00:41:20.800 --> 00:41:23.480
skate, you can't skate, but
I bet you if you go out and
687
00:41:23.480 --> 00:41:27.239
practice a whole bunch, you're not
going to fall down all too often.
688
00:41:27.280 --> 00:41:30.719
Like ice skating is a good example
of just something simple like that. And
689
00:41:30.760 --> 00:41:32.440
I say it's something simple because it's
super simple for me. I've been doing
690
00:41:32.440 --> 00:41:37.239
it for thirty years. Not many
people have. So you know, it's
691
00:41:37.320 --> 00:41:40.559
always fun, but you got to
start somewhere and in order for you to
692
00:41:40.599 --> 00:41:44.880
start, you're going to suck at
it. But if you don't give up,
693
00:41:44.920 --> 00:41:47.639
it's really cool to see what you
can do if you don't give up.
694
00:41:47.719 --> 00:41:51.519
Yep, yeah, hundred percent.
Man. I bet if we watch
695
00:41:51.639 --> 00:41:54.559
videos, you thirty years ago getting
on those skates would probably be like wow,
696
00:41:54.599 --> 00:41:58.760
he's just never going to make it, he's never gonna due to would
697
00:41:58.760 --> 00:42:00.159
have been with one of those big
old cam quarters on the side, like
698
00:42:00.239 --> 00:42:07.840
you know Momada, looking through like
well, dude, and that's true.
699
00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:09.559
I mean you know think I mean
just that camera thing you're talking about.
700
00:42:09.639 --> 00:42:13.920
Dude, it's like to do what
we do now. I mean, think
701
00:42:13.960 --> 00:42:17.159
about it. It's insane. I
am I'm thirty five, but just since
702
00:42:17.199 --> 00:42:22.239
I started using technology as probably ten
or twelve, you think, we got
703
00:42:22.239 --> 00:42:24.440
our first, you know, home
computer with dial up Internet and, you
704
00:42:24.480 --> 00:42:29.800
know, AOL disc like. The
stuff that you can do now is insane.
705
00:42:29.840 --> 00:42:31.800
I mean we, I mean Puerto
Rico, you're where you're at,
706
00:42:31.840 --> 00:42:35.880
New England area, and you know
we're in a New England area. Yep,
707
00:42:36.039 --> 00:42:38.559
yeah, and so we're here live
streaming to the world. We got
708
00:42:38.599 --> 00:42:43.440
people of run bullhorn watching, we
get people on Youtube watching. It's just
709
00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:45.079
blows my I mean I'm just sitting
here like, Dude, this is insane,
710
00:42:45.159 --> 00:42:50.480
like you can literally do and learn
anything in the world, but it
711
00:42:50.559 --> 00:42:55.760
is taking consistent action in showing up
and doing those elementary things over and over
712
00:42:55.800 --> 00:43:00.760
and over again. You want to
know what? What keep? I know
713
00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:05.719
this sounds really silly, but people
our age watched boy meets world. Okay,
714
00:43:05.880 --> 00:43:09.119
and I know everybody loves Mr Finie. Everybody the phoenie caller. Everybody
715
00:43:09.199 --> 00:43:14.480
loves Mr Finie and every way.
Mr Feenie had his moment where he yelled
716
00:43:14.480 --> 00:43:16.480
at everybody. I can't remember the
specific episode but I remember him screwed like
717
00:43:16.559 --> 00:43:21.000
yelling at the class. It's the
one time you see him really upset in
718
00:43:21.039 --> 00:43:24.639
the entire series. And he said
You have the knowledge at your fingertips and
719
00:43:24.760 --> 00:43:30.400
you choose to sit and look at
absolutely not thing. Where people back?
720
00:43:30.440 --> 00:43:36.079
You know, not too long ago
thirsted for a brand new book every couple
721
00:43:36.159 --> 00:43:39.440
of years from somebody that they respected, that they that was well like verst
722
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:44.280
or knowledgeable and like whatever task or, you know, career that they were
723
00:43:44.280 --> 00:43:46.719
in. And we use it to
look at funny videos like, for example,
724
00:43:46.760 --> 00:43:50.679
Tick Tock, is so different in
two different parts of the world.
725
00:43:50.679 --> 00:43:53.199
In China they use it to teach
their children how to do things. Here
726
00:43:53.199 --> 00:43:57.159
we use it to get famous by
falling off, falling down some stairs,
727
00:43:57.199 --> 00:44:00.039
and we go viral and get paid
by it. I mean it's there's different
728
00:44:00.039 --> 00:44:05.559
ways to do it. It's how
you choose to do it. I mean,
729
00:44:05.840 --> 00:44:07.840
it's all on you always. It's
always on you, and if you
730
00:44:07.960 --> 00:44:10.800
bet on yourself, you can't lose
if you want, I mean, unless
731
00:44:10.840 --> 00:44:15.440
you want to lose. But nobody
likes to lose, unless you're one of
732
00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:17.159
those people that just likes to lose. I hate losing. I am so
733
00:44:17.239 --> 00:44:22.159
competitive. I want to win in
every way. I know it's not possible,
734
00:44:22.239 --> 00:44:24.880
but I want it. Yeah,
yeah, you want to win.
735
00:44:24.920 --> 00:44:27.880
And then if you're not, you
know, if you're not in that mindset,
736
00:44:27.920 --> 00:44:30.079
then that's a mindset problem which we
could probably talk about the whole nother
737
00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:35.960
podcast episode, and I want to
jump over I didn't set this scene up,
738
00:44:36.000 --> 00:44:37.119
so I hope it works. But
I'm going to jump over to the
739
00:44:37.119 --> 00:44:42.559
bullhorn chat. Here. We got
a couple people saying hello. Oh,
740
00:44:42.719 --> 00:44:44.920
let me see, what did I
do here? Almost like you. Let
741
00:44:44.920 --> 00:44:46.840
me see if I can fix it. My fixing. It is a fixing.
742
00:44:46.840 --> 00:44:51.039
Oh yeah, there we go.
It's fix any of fixing. I
743
00:44:51.079 --> 00:44:53.239
should have worked on it before,
but anyway. So we got rest.
744
00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:58.079
He says he loves Bob Ross and
then, yes, Sam says heard things.
745
00:44:58.199 --> 00:45:00.480
Is Riding all the time. Um, and I encourage him there.
746
00:45:00.519 --> 00:45:06.039
But so right then the question section
from Sam is what is a good source
747
00:45:06.079 --> 00:45:08.920
of inspiration, like where do you
get your inspiration from? In you know,
748
00:45:09.000 --> 00:45:15.920
how do you keep yourself motivated?
I can say, like you,
749
00:45:15.039 --> 00:45:19.360
I mean I have I'm very lucky
to have loving parents. I'm lucky to
750
00:45:19.360 --> 00:45:21.800
have all that stuff, but life
was not easy as a kid, at
751
00:45:21.880 --> 00:45:23.320
least for me it was not easy. I didn't feel it was easy.
752
00:45:23.360 --> 00:45:27.360
I'm smaller than most people, like
I'm sitting up on a boost receipt,
753
00:45:27.440 --> 00:45:29.960
my own little chair here, but
you know, I'm average heype for a
754
00:45:29.960 --> 00:45:32.400
woman. So it's hard like that's
my inspiration is people look at me as
755
00:45:32.440 --> 00:45:37.519
I'm some little dude, but I
have a six foot five Napoleon complex mentality,
756
00:45:37.880 --> 00:45:39.119
like I'm not going to let somebody
or steam roll me. I'm not
757
00:45:39.119 --> 00:45:44.320
going to let somebody run me over. But I also took it as my
758
00:45:44.360 --> 00:45:46.480
inspiration is myself, like what kind
of life do I want to live?
759
00:45:46.519 --> 00:45:51.199
I mean I have you have all
those moral protectors, like your parents.
760
00:45:51.239 --> 00:45:53.480
You don't want to hurt their feelings, your grandparents, your family, your
761
00:45:53.519 --> 00:45:59.800
close friends. You never want to
offend them. But if you aren't happy
762
00:45:59.840 --> 00:46:02.119
with yourself and you're not able to
do things for yourself, you're never going
763
00:46:02.159 --> 00:46:05.760
to be you never really going to
be happy. You need to figure out
764
00:46:05.800 --> 00:46:08.480
what works for you. For me, my inspiration, I'm lucky enough to
765
00:46:08.480 --> 00:46:12.440
have two little boys. A stare
up at me like luck, for now
766
00:46:12.480 --> 00:46:15.920
at least. They look at me
and they're just like hey, I need
767
00:46:16.000 --> 00:46:19.920
you and in order, and they
don't know why they need me, but
768
00:46:20.000 --> 00:46:22.719
they other than love and like I'm
their dad. But I know for myself
769
00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:25.719
I need to be better. I
need to figure out a way to provide
770
00:46:25.760 --> 00:46:29.320
for them, but I also need
to find a way to be a good
771
00:46:29.320 --> 00:46:34.079
teacher to them. And help them
grow. So if I'm not doing things
772
00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:36.760
to the best of my ability,
at least I can do things to the
773
00:46:36.800 --> 00:46:39.360
best ability for them, for my
whole family, for whatever it is.
774
00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:44.239
That's that's my inspiration, is my
little family that I have. I want
775
00:46:44.280 --> 00:46:47.679
to create my own. I want
my own piece of land, I want
776
00:46:47.760 --> 00:46:52.440
my own American dream and I have
it. I'm living it, you know.
777
00:46:52.639 --> 00:46:55.480
So for inspiration, you can always
find it in a book, you
778
00:46:55.480 --> 00:46:59.719
can read it, you can do
whatever it's going to be, whatever works
779
00:46:59.760 --> 00:47:04.760
for you and whatever capacity you could
bring it to yourself. Yeah, that's
780
00:47:04.800 --> 00:47:07.719
good, man, and I think
too, and I'll add to you know,
781
00:47:07.760 --> 00:47:09.639
to that a little bit, because
what you what you said there's so
782
00:47:09.679 --> 00:47:14.000
important. I think some so many
times, and maybe our system does this,
783
00:47:14.079 --> 00:47:16.079
you know, especially in this in
the states, you know, the
784
00:47:16.199 --> 00:47:22.119
educational system, and it's a rewards
based since performance based, and it's not
785
00:47:22.199 --> 00:47:24.840
created equal for everyone. It's like, dude, like I was a horrible,
786
00:47:24.880 --> 00:47:30.280
horrible, horrible student, dropped out
of high school a semester before it
787
00:47:30.320 --> 00:47:35.039
was over because I literally like couldn't
pass an Algebra class and you know,
788
00:47:35.119 --> 00:47:37.679
turns out I owned a business that
Gen generated, you know, a hundred
789
00:47:37.679 --> 00:47:42.920
thousand dollars and like organized and manage
at all. I just couldn't learn how
790
00:47:42.960 --> 00:47:46.440
to count how many freaking strawberries susy
had and why they're missing or whatever the
791
00:47:46.480 --> 00:47:52.400
equation was, and I was so
focused on pleasing other people that I really
792
00:47:52.440 --> 00:47:58.480
didn't self evaluate. And this is
the thing too about being a content creator
793
00:47:58.480 --> 00:48:02.000
and doing what I do now is
I had to make it in the pandemic
794
00:48:02.039 --> 00:48:06.199
help this. By the way,
I mean this was a there's a horrible,
795
00:48:06.199 --> 00:48:08.519
horrible things that came from the this
pandemic, but one of the beautiful
796
00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:14.880
things for my life was the opportunity
to just stop in the radio silence.
797
00:48:15.000 --> 00:48:16.039
You know, I had a t
shirt business that was moving to move and
798
00:48:16.079 --> 00:48:22.760
move and signed the biggest contract we've
ever signed about two weeks before the pandemic
799
00:48:22.960 --> 00:48:24.599
that it comes back like hey,
we're not doing this. Events canceled,
800
00:48:25.000 --> 00:48:29.599
canceled, order, cancel order,
cancel order, and I'm sitting at my
801
00:48:29.639 --> 00:48:32.880
desk like literally as a hobby podcaster, going all right, what do I
802
00:48:32.920 --> 00:48:37.360
do next? And then phone call
after phone call from entrepreneur and business owner
803
00:48:37.519 --> 00:48:40.159
was like came man, I need
to go digital. What should I do?
804
00:48:40.440 --> 00:48:45.199
And so I started like just talking
to people about creating content and next
805
00:48:45.239 --> 00:48:47.840
the clubhouse. You know, I've
discovered clubhouse, and then all of a
806
00:48:47.840 --> 00:48:52.440
sudden, man, my world just
lights up because I understood what the needs
807
00:48:52.440 --> 00:48:54.599
of people were around me. And
then I made that decision, because my
808
00:48:54.599 --> 00:48:57.639
wife's like, what are you gonna
do? I'm like, I'm going to
809
00:48:57.760 --> 00:49:00.679
create content. I'm going to be
a content creator fulltime, like that's what
810
00:49:00.679 --> 00:49:02.880
I'm going to do. And you
know, and luckily she you know,
811
00:49:02.920 --> 00:49:07.599
she's built her business up and so
that was a part of that financial relief
812
00:49:07.679 --> 00:49:09.000
to go, okay, go throw
them up on the wall and see what
813
00:49:09.079 --> 00:49:14.119
sticks. And, you know,
we monetize the podcast super fast and man,
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it's been incredible. But it was
the decision to do it for myself
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and to people. We live in
the world SYS don't be selfish, and
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I'm seeing be selfish, because out
of that selfishness you'll build a whole life
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that is so you know, allow
other people to you know, to live
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in your family and your legacy,
and I think that's what we're afters.
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We're building a little time capsules with
content and we're putting it out there into
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the world. And hopefully our family
can live off some of this revenue and
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inspiration down the road. So would
anyway, I would say it's not selfishness,
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man, it's more focus, like
you can't say yourself a true focus
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through you're focused. That's all it
is. You know what you want and
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you're going to get it and if
you treat everything in that, in that
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way, there's nothing you can do, man. I mean Elon Musk eight
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years ago was, you know,
broke, and look at him now.
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I mean, I can't say he
was broke. Who still pretty rich,
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but he's not as rich as he
is now. I mean right shutters the
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world with a tweet, he chase, he moved, he's our iron man
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dude, like he's true. That's
that's what happens when you focus on what
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you want. It's not being selfish
every like all of this stuff that's here
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is you could use that, not
just for creative mental block, but I
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feel like you could take something of
what I had said and apply it to
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really anything. In these little eight
steps of what you need to do for
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yourself, whether you want to create
something, where you want to just go
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and do something new, go do
it. I mean you can apply all
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of it. That's good, man, Dude. Excellent conversation. Thanks for
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coming so prepared and bringing points and
all that stuff. Man. I mean
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that's that's great content. So,
man, I really appreciate you one respond
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in to my hey, I need
somebody to come on the show and then
841
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and then bringing the heat like you
did. Bring the heat. I appreciate
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it. Man, I'm not.
I felt I was. I wasn't thinking
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that it would be too hot,
but I'm glad that it's hot enough to
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where you enjoy it. So that's
good. At just enough spice. It
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was awesome. In and rest you
over here. This is going to be
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it's wrong again. I moved it, but anyway, he said, Hey,
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thanks for the knowledge. Thank you
for the knowledge. I guess several
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people watching a bullhorn. So we
really appreciate those guys. But yeah,
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man, Aaron, is there anything
that you want to say that I didn't
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open you up to say? Or
maybe I don't ask the best questions in
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the world, but dude, I
think you did a great job. There's
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nothing that I would ever change out
of what you do. Like when I
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first met you, I met you
through clubhouse. You had way more followers
854
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and I did. When it came
to things. I was just starting out
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and then we got in a room. I actually you got to hear me
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speak, I got to hear you
speak, and I was like, I
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like this guy. I really feel
like we've got a lot that we could
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grow you know, there's different things
that we could do. We have the
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same image where we want to be, and now I'm here, so I
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appreciate you inviting me here. I
want to say a nice thank you and
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to all the people that have,
you know, listen to me for at
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least an hour. You know,
I'm just a guy, just like you.
863
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I'm nothing special. I just have
something figured out that I'd like to
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share. That's all. Yeah,
man, love it, Dude. We'll
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keep creating and I will definitely have
you back on the show and do some
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follow up stuff. And I mean
I know if you got one list of
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eight amazing things, you probably have
a bunch more lists. Will bring you
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back on and share those, but
appreciate you here. Thanks, man,
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problem, my friend. Thank you
much, all right. Thank you so
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much. All right, everybody.
Thank you so much for watching. If
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you watch your lives, if you're
listen to the replay either on bullhorn or
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youtube. Really appreciate that and make
sure you hit a subscribe button close to
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you. Drops comment let us know
where you're watching from. A lot of
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support on the bullhorn APP today.
Really appreciate that. I don't know who
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tweeted out that or whatever, but
got it's got several people over there listening
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00:52:45.880 --> 00:52:51.920
and watching, so appreciate that a
lot. If you're not creating on bullhorn,
877
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reach out to me. I'll get
in touch with those guys over there.
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They're creating an awesome platform and we
can definitely make the connection if you
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want to be a live streamer podcaster
and use their platform. Super, super
880
00:53:04.000 --> 00:53:07.360
great platform to do. But tomorrow, I don't know I said. But
881
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however, tomorrow, join me here, same time, same place, at
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two PM, I get a very
special person on my show tomorrow. Her
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name is Jenny Rodgers. She is
a fifty nine year creator, Super Amazing
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Person. She's a songwriter, a
musician, an author. She just released
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a new book called Mama Bear Meditations
in this person is probably one of the
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most special people in the creative world
to me, because it was in her
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high school music class, her high
school choir class, where she was a
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substitute that my life was forever changed, like literally, I accidentally signed up,
889
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because I'm not very diligent in the
in the classroom for a girl's performance
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art class. That turned into a
CD project. That turned it into me
891
00:53:52.800 --> 00:53:55.960
moving ten hours from home to go
to a music school. That turned into
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all the stuff I do now,
and so it was this ladies message.
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There was this lady in that moment
to say hey, don't, don't leave,
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don't quit, don't, don't leave
the choir class. I mean your
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young guy and this is full of
girls like this is a dream for you,
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but stay and we'll create something cool. And so, anyway, I'm
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going to bring her on. It's
going to be it's going to be a
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great episode. I'm going to try
not to cry, but because she means
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a lot to me and she's very
special person in my life and I want
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to celebrate her and celebrate her new
book that she dropped. So be sure
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to come back tomorrow. Super Fun
and we're both like adhd is heck.
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So we'll see if we can get
through a full episode. May Have her
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on for two days in row.
We'll see. Anyway, that's two o'clock
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tomorrow to BM eastern time. Be
here and thanks for watching and we'll see
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soon